" marry me" female:娶我。 male:嫁给我。 " i can't marry you". female:我不能嫁给你。 male:我不能娶你。

呵呵，2是对的，but是女人用的，男的用娶，女的用嫁给or嫁

1. The second one is right. In Chinese,我不能嫁给你（wo bu neng jia gei ni）.If you are a girl, when you want to reject one's proposal,you can say"wo bu neng jia gei ni ". If you are a boy, you can say "wo bu neng he ni jie hun(我不能和你结婚）",girls can say this word too. 2."marry me", in Chinese, it means"jia gei wo ba(嫁给我吧）"or“he wo jie hun ba（和我结婚吧）” If you are a boy, you can say like this. but if you are a girl, you should say:"he wo jie hun ba(和我结婚吧) or "qu wo ba（娶我吧）" My English not very well，but I try my best to help you。If this answer can help you，i will very happy！

the first question,if you say "i can't marry you"when you are a man,it means "wo bu neng he ni jie hun" but if you are a girl, it mean "wo bu neng jia gei ni" the second qestion, if you are a man,"marry me" means "jia gei wo ba" or "he wo jie hun ba" if you are a girl ,it means "qu wo ba"or "he wo jie hun ba"

in chinese，“marry” -----”jiehun“is intransitive verb ====================================== if i say " marry me", nimen zen me xie? ============================= jia gei wo 。