Do the Chinese have a saying like the English one 'If the shoe fits, wear it'? Do the Chinese have a saying like the English one 'If the shoe fits, wear it'? ( often shortened to..if the shoe fits) For those who have not heard this saying before here are some explanations. if the shoe fits If the shoe fits- meaning- If a description applies to you, then accept it. This expression is often used when something derogatory is said about a person who then complains to a third party. The third party, if they agree with the original negative comment, might suggest "If the shoe fits, then wear it". An example of that might be: Jack: Just because I've missed two or three sessions, my fitness trainer says I lack motivation. Jill: Well, if the shoe fits, wear it. (idiomatic) If it has all of the characteristics of a thing, it probably is that thing. "Everyone keeps calling me a bully!" "Well, if the shoe fits..."