It’s really useful to flatter ourselves first then to take care of others. If we can’t make us happy, it’s hard to treat others in a good mood. For example I was productive at work yesterday like my supervisor praised me for my good work which made my day , so I didn’t loose temper and complain about my husband staying at home all day not making dinner for me when I came back from work. I walked to the kitchen and made dinner happily. Generally if it happened when I was upset I would have shouted at him and got a quarrel. I worked my part-time job helping the students to memorize the vocabulary which I am fond of doing and can make me delighted towards , when I came back home from