Untitled Everybody is looking for something . Looking for a job, looking for a place to stay, looking for love , looking for a piece of memory, or looking for a dream. Some people are looking for someone else,and some are looking for themselves. Some are looking , but they can't even tell what they are looking for.

The Power Of Being Alone There is a movie called "Tokyo Biyori", which have a scene that makes me wondering in a long time—— when a man saw his wife walking alone in the street，suddenly he was shocked by her quiet appearance. At that time, I thought his shock coming from the discovery that his woman was also pleasant and contented without his company. Yet today a poem gives me a new perspective：a person stand on the corner waiting for nobody，that is a kind of strength in itself. One day I was chatting with a male friend，he said：“ whenever I go out to eat alone，I'm always telling the waiter that there are two persons. Then, if any waiter ask me by the time the food arrived, I could use the explanation——my friend can't come. ” So I asked why he had such a crankery，he spoke hesitatingly“ it's very strange to eat alone！” I will bring a book when I do my hair. Doing things like reading to escape from the other's curiosity. When I'm alone， I don't want to be disturbed, even, I don't want to face myself. Therefore I devote all my energy and mind to another world. Maybe getting along with oneself is the most difficult thing. If not in our own apartments, sensitive and nervous as a left- behind little beast，we dare not close to anyone and don't want to be closed to. A book or a pair of sunglasses, just admit it，we use such masks to prevent others from looking through , closing to or hurting. SO you need to accompany，hoping to deal with all the other time. I used to be afraid of being alone, envying those women who seemed to have the power .In fact, I don't need to envy. The spirit of these women are very simple: Don't wait for anybody, also do not need anyone: Without props isolate yourself so that you aren't isolate any possibility. When it is not afraid of in a daze, there is more easier to focus on your spiritual world. Talisman of them, is quiet, is the power of casual and hard to control.

No One Can Replace You A friend warned me that: “if you think a man cannot be replaced, then you would be wrong, that's because you rely on feelings too much . You haven't seen many good men yet, so you will think that man cannot be replaced .” After I listened to this remark saying:it is far from the truth. Jin Yong written on the end of 《 Story of the West》：Jiangnan have willows ，peach blossomes，swallows and goldfishes .......there are plenty of brave pretty boys in the han nationality.......but the beautiful girl is so stubborn like the ancient Chinese gaochang:" that is very very good, but I don't like." Right，there are a lot of men better than him ，but i don't like. How can use " good or not" to measure a person whether he can be replaced or not?If use" good "to measure, then all men in the world, no one is can not be substituted. if use "good "to measure,then there are many parents better for children ,but no one can be comparable to your parents. You should know what you have is the best. Not because a thing is good, you will make every attempt to have it, but because you already have it, so you think it the best wholeheartedly. There are always some things you cannot get in this world. if you wish to get what you do not have, your desire will never be able to get satisfaction. Once you meet, only imperfections in your eyes and turn to be attracted by other things.The question is what you have are really not as good as what you don't have? Why does the man cannot be the best man which a girl of 24 years old like? After all, because I love him, so he is the best in the world rather than he is the best that I can love him. My friend's point of view is very terrible.One who holds this opinion,blame to others is not good enough in life,but never blame oneself for not being the best.

Sunflower You came suddenly one day, came into this tragic world; and so you were destined to be lonely, though the world is so bright and bustling. One day you will feel lost, just as I have been. Don’t be sad or lose your way; the twists and turns are what make life meaningful. If you can, if you’re able, you must become that beautiful sunflower, against the cold wind and bitter rain of pain and suffering, blossoming with tenacity and glory.

the big blue “The big blue” is not a movie that is dedicated to the love ，it's a recall that is dedicated to his daughter when luc besson just became a father.It was more like an essay. “Do you know how to do to meet a mermaid?You go down to the bottom of the sea,where the water isn't even blue anymore,where the sky is only a memory,and you float there,in the silence.And you stay there,and you decide,that you'll die for them.Only then do they start coming out.They come,and they greet you,and they judge the love you have for them.If it's sincere,if it's pure,they'll be with you,and take you away forever....." It is a fairy tale to Joanna but a belief to Jacques."Les Grand bleu" is larger than life and even more important than love .The man is in pursuit of his ideal world, however,the womon's ideal world is her man .They hug each other, but still lonely ,maybe just each other's chest temperature can exchange.Life was destined that they would love each other but fate decided they can only enjoy freedom alone. Every time Jacques into the bottom of the sea, he doesn't care if he break the world record .Deep blue sea is his world, the memory of his childhood, his father, his best friend"Reynolds "and the most important thing of his life -the mermaid are waiting for him in cold blue sea，he just went back to his real home, more and more deeper...Eternal blue, the freedom of loneliness ,it is only one in the world fatefully.In the real grey world, we are the most lonely dolphin. At the end of the film,the little mermaid in Jacques's dream really came.Maybe our life will have a fragile moment like Jacques，there is a lonely dolphin with an angel 's voice calling you " hey, I'll take you to the world that belongs to you "in that piece of deep blue，would you like Jacques put aside the diving, followed it away?Most of us do not choose that way like Jacques，cherishing the present，staying for the people around us，we are all grown up.Of course, sometimes in a dream,the lonely dolphin will swim to us from time to time，so hold the people around you tightly. 　C'est la vie ，l'amour ne sont pas tout 　　

I prefer to be myself Rousseau said: " nature created me and then broke the mold. " It sounds conceited, however，it applies to everyone. Unfortunately, most people can not stand the loss of their own molds, so they use public model to remake themselves again.The results become so similar to each other. Become a real yourself is not an easy thing.There are many people, you can say he is just something, such as a career, a kind of identity, a role, but not himself. If a person always living according to the opinions of others , does not have its own independent thinking and always busying with external affairs , not having their own inner life. You won't be able to find anything whatever, from head to heart, that truly belongs to him. he is just a shadow of others or a machine . Life on earth we can't have no friend.In all of friends, we can't miss the most important one , that is oneself. i want to become any person, experiencing any kind of life, including the king ,plutocrat, saints, monks ,robber etc and even willing to become a fly, but the premise is to change back myself .So, in the final analysis, I prefer to be myself.

waht's your favourite chinese poetry？mine is“人间有味是清欢”

informal essay The world is beautiful because of each country's culture has its unique beauty.Meet people from different cultural elements,it is better to maintain the curiosity to explore it and try to do more to understand rather than stand aside to comment in an exclusion attitude.The world is belong to each of us，learn to seek common ground while reserving differences，learn to share and exchange.After all, miss understanding the beauty of foreign culture will be a personal loss.

First notebook entry: Introducing myself Everything that you've learnt and all the hardships you've suffered will all come in handy at some point in your life.