The way I see the world I always think there is a rule to explain everything. As if you know it, you can predict the future. I am prond of myself for realizing all the rules. However my mind has changed since I read the book <the black swan>(This is not an advertisement). The book tells that there is not a rule for most of things and human just tend to figure out a patern from what they see and believe there is a rule to explain it. I reflect myself and my experience, then I find out that it is true that there is not a rule for lots of things and I imagine a rule in my mind.So I adjust my way of thinking without forcing myself to look for a patern for everything.

If you had a chance to go back to the past(like 10 years ago), what would you say to yourself?

What would you say to yourself?

What would you want to do ?

Leave or Stay I work in HR department and I am responsible for social insurance. I have to deal with huge of work everyday. I found it very difficult to make a dent in my skills. As far as I'm concerned, you have to improve yourself, otherwise you won't get a pay increase or get more opportunities to change your job position. If I quitted my job, I would find another one and have a pay increase but at the same time I would have to take a risk of unemployment. I am thinking of leaving or staying at my company right now.