Do you believe in love at first sight ? why ?

I dont believe in love at first sight, because i think true love takes time ,it takes time for people to understand  each other and i think "love at first sight "is  because of each others' appearance .

 thank you for viewing and please  share ur opinions and reasons .:)

<Do in Rome as Rome does> Could you tell me some customs of your country?

Im chinese ,  Chinese customs differ greatly from those of the west.

1> Setting fireworks off at the Spring Festival is a custom in China.

2> Rejecting a meal is like spitting in ones face in Chinese culture

3>Eat dumplings and dragon-boat race is the custom in many parts of China......

    could u tell me some customs about your country?????

Sound Of Silence i was scared by my roommate's screaming tonight , after that ,i couldn't sleep :/ , i thought she had a terrible nightmare .so i listened to music ,and settled down to relax. its 1:21 am now , i seldom stay up late , i want to live a healthy life.my friend recommended to me an old song <sound of silence > yesterday, i really like it , the melody ,the message, and enjoy its slow and tender beat. this lyrics spoke of sworrow ,loss and pain i really hope someone know the song and i think u will like it . the lyrics: Hello darkness, my old friend I've come to talk with you again Because a vision softly creeping Left its seeds while I was sleeping And the vision that was planted in my brain Still remains Within the sound of silence In restless dreams I walked alone Narrow streets of cobblestone 'Neath the halo of a street lamp I turned my collar to the cold and damp When my eyes were stabbed by the flash of a neon light That split the night And touched the sound of silence And in the naked light I saw Ten thousand people, maybe more People talking without speaking People hearing without listening People writing songs that voices never share And no one dare Disturb the sound of silence "Fools" said I, "You do not know Silence like a cancer grows Hear my words that I might teach you Take my arms that I might reach to you" But my words like silent raindrops fell And echoed in the wells of silence .... Lay down into the snow ,and the smell of blossom helps you forget to all thank you for veiwing and editing ^^

i am sad nobody want to edit my writing i want to write a diary on italki everyday, ive written two diaries ,but i m sad it seems no one want to help me with my writing , :( :( :(

Letters to ourselves (after ten years).what will you say ?

       Hi,Abby ,how are you doing?  do you miss the time when you were in university ?i think you do miss me  .you are 29 years old now , you must be busy at work and home,do u still like watching movies  reading books ?do you still like painting ? i guess u want to say 'I'm not the girl i used to be  ten years ago'

       i'll want to tell you i m having the best moment  in my life ,,i am you :).i hope you still like laughing and love youself. Health is the most important fund for us , no matter the present, the future, the ego or who we love,so exercise is really important 

       the reality is cruel ,but i hope you can be honest and  maintain sincerity in your life.keep smiling knowing the future is made up of whatever choice you make next ! 

 :) take good care of youeself~

   

 

 What will you say ?    (thank you for visiting and improving sentences, )

what will u eat for breakfast or lunch ?

i used to think i was a healthy girl , however when i went into college , i often stay up late and eat some unhealthy food , i feel fat already ,so i have to diet as well as exercise .

     i have oatmeal for breakfast ,  have rice,vegetables or noodles for lunch, rarely eat meat.(i feel sick with oatmeal coz i ve had it for about 45 days ,omg)

      

 and what will you eat ?(thank you for reading and editing ,sorry for my bad english , wish u can understand what i am talking about   :）~~）

Jenna McCarthy:something we have to know about marriage

i just watched a vedio about the writer Jenna McCarthy  who tell us something about how to keep  the  marriage strong.here r a few suggestions from the vedio.

(1)women have to be thinner than their partners 

(2)the happiest couples are the ones that focus on the positives 

(3)the more willing a husband  is to do housework,the more attractive his wife will find him.

...

 

what else will u do to safegurad ur marriage ??(im not good at english ，thank u for reading and please help me to edit)   :)

here is the vedio 
http://v.163.com/movie/2013/9/G/8/M97FRD5EU_M97FSIIG8.html

something about my university life{大学生活的一些事}（can u help me to edit?) {im glad i entered my university in 2014, i hope i can be happy everyday ,but there always has something bad in life , i have some problems with my roommate ,she might not like me ,at the beginning we got along well with each other,we had lunch together and we went walking together at night in the playground,later,our friendship broke up, i dont know whether im right or not ,but i really dont want us to stick together , she didnt hope me build good friendships with other friends and gave me two choices between her and another friend of mine ....but i think it is wrong ,sorry .} 我很开心自己在2014年进入了大学，我希望自己可以开心每一天，但是人生总是有不完美的事，我和舍友有了一些小矛盾，她可能不太喜欢我了，当初开学的时候我们的关系很好，我们一起去吃午饭，晚上一起在操场散步，后来，渐渐地我们的关系破裂了。我不知道我是不是错了，但我真的不希望友谊就是两个人黏在一起，她不希望我和别的同学建立友谊，并且让我在她和另一个女孩之间二选一，但我觉得这是不对的，对不起。 {And another thing im sad is that i broke with my bf , i think the end is not we had hope , i try to forget it , but found its very had . i still feel heartache when i think about it now ,something bad happened between us , even though after the bad thing happened ,we didnt want to communiate with each other .i was sad but I pretend does not matter in front of him ,( but you know that behind me will be hurt long, long time?) i dont know his feeling , but he acts he didnt care. then i was more sad at heart.........} 还有一件让我悲伤的事就是我和男朋友分手了，我想结局都不是我们当初希望的，我尝试忘记，却发现很难。当我一想到这件事依旧感到心痛。我们之间发生了很多不愉快的事，甚至在不愉快之后，我们都不愿意沟通。我虽然很伤心，但是在他面前却装作无所谓的样子。我不知道他是怎样想的，但是他的态度也和我差不多，在心里我就更难过了。。。。。。。 {I received an anonymous email last night ，said:' miss you and take care .' i repied:' i dont know who you are , thank you though and i will ."my ex is relly a nice guy ,i want to say to him （but i know i wont say ):'maybe God works in his ways maybe there was a reason we didn't end up together. like a bigger reason maybe I think you can have much better than me and he deserve it because you really are such a nice guy. '}昨晚收到一封匿名邮件：“佳人遥相忆，佳人记得多添衣。”我回复了:“我不知道你是谁，但是谢谢你，我会的。” 他真的是一个很好的人，或许上帝有他的原因我们最后没有在一起，更多的是我觉得你会比我找到更好的，你值得拥有更好的因为你真的是一个很好的人。

something about my university life{大学生活的一些事}（can u help me to edit?) 我很开心自己在2014年进入了大学，我希望自己可以开心每一天，但是人生总是有不完美的事，我和舍友有了一些小矛盾，她可能不太喜欢我了，当初开学的时候我们的关系很好，我们一起去吃午饭，晚上一起在操场散步，后来，渐渐地我们的关系破裂了。我不知道我是不是错了，但我真的不希望友谊就是两个人黏在一起，她不希望我和别的同学建立友谊，并且让我在她和另一个女孩之间二选一，但我觉得这是不对的，对不起。{im glad i entered my university in 2014, i hope i can be happy everyday ,but there always has something bad in life , i have some problems with my roommate ,she might not like me ,at the beginning we got along well with each other,we had lunch together and we went walking together at night in the playground,later,our friendship broke up, i dont know whether im right or not ,but i really dont want us to stick together , she didnt hope me build good friendships with other friends and gave me two choices between her and another friend of mine ....but i think it is wrong ,sorry .} 还有一件让我悲伤的事就是我和男朋友分手了，我想结局都不是我们当初希望的，我尝试忘记，却发现很难。当我一想到这件事依旧感到心痛。我们之间发生了很多不愉快的事，甚至在不愉快之后，我们都不愿意沟通。我虽然很伤心，但是在他面前却装作无所谓的样子。我不知道他是怎样想的，但是他的态度也和我差不多，在心里我就更难过了。。。。。。。{And another thing im sad is that i broke with my bf , i think the end is not we had hope , i try to forget it , but found its very had . i still feel heartache when i think about it now ,something bad happened between us , even though after the bad thing happened ,we didnt want to communiate with each other .i was sad but I pretend does not matter in front of him ,( but you know that behind me will be hurt long, long time?) i dont know his feeling , but he acts he didnt care. then i was more sad at heart.........} 昨晚收到一封匿名邮件：“佳人遥相忆，佳人记得多添衣。”我回复了:“我不知道你是谁，但是谢谢你，我会的。” 他真的是一个很好的人，或许上帝有他的原因我们最后没有在一起，更多的是我觉得你会比我找到更好的，你值得拥有更好的因为你真的是一个很好的人。{I received an anonymous email last night ，said:' miss you and take care .' i repied:' i dont know who you are , thank you though and i will ."my ex is relly a nice guy ,i want to say to him （but i know i wont say ):'maybe God works in his ways maybe there was a reason we didn't end up together. like a bigger reason maybe I think you can have much better than me and he deserve it because you really are such a nice guy. '}（