SAY vs TELL – What’s the difference? Many students ask me: What’s the difference between say and tell? Here’s an easy guide: - SAY – Focuses on the words spoken Use it when you're not saying who you spoke to. Examples: He said he was tired. She said, “I’m going home.” What did you say? - TELL – Focuses on giving information to someone Use it when you mention who you’re talking to. Examples: He told me he was tired. She told her friend a secret. Can you tell me your name? * Quick tip: If you use a person, use TELL: ✔ He told me. ❌ He said me.