What do you think about divorce? Divorce is not a lot in China before. In recent years is always to hear many of these. May be because the Chinese thought there are still a little traditional. But my foreign friends think this is normal. Sometimes I don't quite understand. Not only because of the love together? Since love why not inclusive each other's shortcomings. This is the difference between Chinese and western culture?
I don't like divorce especially in family with children. But if people don't love each other divorce is beter than live together, hate each other and conflict every day.
I think percentage of divorces depends of mentality and upbringing. If girl teached to be housewife and mother, and boy teached to be getter and defender and parents made their wedding, they will not deforce. But i think it's not love, it's project called "Family", it's good for nation, but bad for man.
I think that nowadays people are looking for an easy way out. Relationships take work and things often get a little rough. Instead of working to a solution, it's easier to break up and move on. I think it may also be that women have more power than they used to. The role of women in relationships have changed, so they don't have to just listen to what the man says, which probably causes more tension.
I'm Chinese, but I think it is normal. When Love's gone, divorce is the best way to restart a new life.
No matter wich country you live now people are different ! Love is not just to love a one person for a period of tim but forever ! Some people prefferr not to fight just to leave . Get marry is a serious step . So 1 need time and 2 you have to make your choise! Times go people change , but we are the people who decide what we want ! Divorce is something very hurtfull not only for parents but and for their children! Just we have to love people what they are and we can be there and support them if they want to change to better !
@malik Yep.
