caring too much about a friend Once again I have fallen into the trap of caring too much about a friend. The problem is all the hours spent on talking and being there as support for a friend and giving advice that eventually it changes something inside, so I end up with more then just friendship feelings. And at the same time the friend tells me they found someone... not great to hear since it hurts a lot, but it is not my friend fault since how could she know? I guess I have to work on this in the future so the same thing doesn't happen with new friends and then cut the ties with this person so I can move along and not being hurt emotionally. Life is all about learning from experiences.