Friends or Enemies Some trivial matters occupied me all day long during these days, I have to take quite long time to get rid of them. However an event deeply touched me last week, several colleagues and me had a celebrating party for a big project we just finished , we almost opened our minds without much overcautions when we were slightly drunk, but you know drunkness reveals what soberness conceals(in wine there is truth), I got a common conclusion from the words by different colleagues, the truth is everyone had some awful experiences in several years, but they forced themselves became calm even some quite unhappiness occured to them, or got themselves accustom to unhappy suffering……, Which didn't surprise me when I recalled some unhappiness in my work ,the truth be told, I also had several conflicts with one colleague who undermined me more than once out of jealous, it really bothered me at that time…… Some old friends I met when I was in university always kept close touch with me although we have graduated since several years ago, we still generously supported each other if some one are in need,so I can't figure out why it is so hard to make some good friends in work as in campus, Maybe benefit conflicts or competition always exists among colleagues , but not among classmates. In opposite end, people get far away from others who don't have connection in business, not to speak of being friends.