how to rise children This in my humble opinion the hardest task ever, simply because it is related to the most complexe creature till known : humains. First of all what do we want our children to be, healthy, wealthy, confidents, self dependents, creatives, passionates, an endless list of "positives" criterias that parents fail to match and wants their descendants to fulfill. This is more then legitimate, and driven by an instinctif quest for "perfection" we pass our expectations to our infants. If I can advise a new parent on how to rise his children I would say, just love them and try to give them the best you can with patient and comprehension.