2017.3.21 The drama i am recently watching disappointed me. in the large extent, the reason why i was obsessive with that drama is the friendship between the two heroines. They suffered a lot, but no matter what they got , they always supported and encouraged one another unconditionally. That really impressed me. I felt hope and strength. But now, things are changed. There is a split on their friendship. But it is fine, that just a drama. A friend asked me something about love and marriage. I was wondering why people reverse the procedure of love. People ask the other side whom people felt good at when they met about his/her opinions on the issues of house, children-raising, even the duty of caring parent etc before they fell in love each other. The friend told me that people are busy nowadays, they even have no time to think about relationship or they were fail to meet up with the right person. When they realized that they no longer have time to wait, they have to accelerate to find the person out. they do not want to waste one minute, so that they became more and more direct and purposive. Even thought i dont agree with this opinion on relationship, but maybe i will be the person like that in the early future. Cause what i believe is that people` mind would change with increase of age.