hey see at ur bottom window thres u cn see people click tht and u see hu is online there. then u click hu want to chat then a window will open thre u cn chat...

some people also write their e-mails on their pages.

ok thats what i know 1-on the top of the page you will find the link "friends" 2-on the top of friends page you will find " find a language partner" 3-you will find a huge list of the users , above them you will find the search tool bar. 4-if you want to add someone open his profile and you will find "add as a friend " under his picture, a message will be sent to him with the request. 5-after accepting , you will be able to chat with him using the chatting tool bar on the bottom of the screen , it looks like the one in facebook. i hope that helped.