宁缺毋滥=rather go without than have something shoddy /put quality before quantity
for instance Rather go without than have something shoddy. Don't find a man unceremoniously, this would not be fair to you and him, and the lack of a sense of responsibility too.宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞随手抓一个男人,这对你和他都不公平,而且太缺乏责任感。