The language of the Filipino people be it Pilipino or Tagalog, is situational. If it is your friend and you feel that he is waning away from you, you will ask him, something like is there anything in me that is troubling you? This is said as "May hinanakit ka ba sa akin" in Pilipino or in Tagalog street language,"may attraso ba ako sa iyo?" which means is there any atrocity that I have done to you that I may not know of?"