How to do self-development faster in the company (... skip...) 7. Does my brain sink to myself? - If the brain gets stressed or shocked, the brain state changes as short term surviving mode. Then we could being emotional, setting protective instinct, being ultimate and having dichotomy etc. We focus on who are my enemies, who are on my side. And we think short term time rather than long term time. How to self-diagnose is that checking importance of my thinking. If It weights about my work/business or weight about myself? If I give a lot of weight to myself then it means my brain is sinking to myself. So we have to put effort to change my brain as executive state again. If I need help then get some therapy would work. (I’d appreciate that if you correct me😀) https://youtu.be/drBdnrlsq9o

In this year, I’ve been getting know one friend. And it seems that he is a bit rude and tends to ignore my perspective. For instance, when we talk about topic of covid-19 or personal activities for being a better person etc, he often tries to give me a deflective advice and it often sounds like he doesn’t respect of my view and doesn’t understand my own experience. So I got mad sometimes when I had a conversation with him. One day, he shared his personal problem with me. He is having a difficulty of communicating with some friends. And I found that his unconscious reaction or mentioning towards them might be possibly misinterpreted him as being rude or arrogant. It seems that he mightn’t know which reaction or expression could get on theirs nerves in a sense. Somehow I feel sorry about my misunderstanding towards him so far. And I’ve also known that it’s obviously difficult to choose right words which don’t needle someone’s mood when we discuss sensitive topics. So I’ve determined that instead of judging him, I tried to share my understanding of content of him when I feel misunderstand(ie. when I get mad) at him. I’m not sure if we could become good friends though, because being friends require a good match of personalities. But I’m thankful for him because I learned a good mindset of understanding someone who is different with me. - Please correct me 😀

[EN] If I determine that I’d like to think some people are nice, then if they say anything to me though, I’d think that’s support, humor and comfort. If I determine that I’d like to think some people are not nice, then if they say good things to me though, I’d think that’s sarcasm, ridicule and ironic expression. Eventually it depends on which perspective do I have for the people and the world, it’s decided my mood in a day. And these each days affect a quality of my life happiness 🤔 - A piece of thoughts [KR] 좋게 보고자 마음먹은 사람과는 무슨 말을 들어도 응원, 친해져 보자는 장난, 위로 등으로 들리고 안좋게 보고자 마음먹은 사람과는 무슨 말을 듣던 비꼬음, 수위넘는 조롱, 반어 등으로 들린다. 결국 어떤 시각으로 사람들과 세상을 바라보느냐에 따라 소소한 삶 속에서 내 기분의 좋고 나쁨이 정해지고 이것들이 쌓여 삶의 행복도가 정해지는 것 같다🤔 - 문득 페이스북 댓글들 보다가 정리된 생각 [DE] Werde ich das Schreiben üben...🥲

I visited at a restaurant after a long time, which sells Japanese foods by a Korean chef. I had often visited it for having a brunch because I used to live nearby the restaurant. After I ordered a menu, I awarded that the chef might be changed.. A waiter seemed to be a Japanese and the genre of the background music of there is latin..? I felt these harmony isn’t national. Then suddenly, I assumed that I’d possibly waste my moneyㅠ. But after I tried one noodle of curry Udon, the assumption disappeared totally. It was still amazingly delicious! I rapidly ate it at once. And then when I paid it, I told the waiter that it’s been a long time to visit this place to me, but your Udon is still great. Then she made a big smile and said that they’re trying to do their best for keeping same recipe. Her Korean speech was so humble and how honest saying? I felt good with her honesty and her kind attitude. The moment of lunch was short though the good vibe which I received from the restaurant followed me for all day.

Could you please correct me? - I was also one of the people who have decided to reduce my plastic use since I saw a photo of whales that had died from swallowing too much plastic in the ocean. The only thing I can do for fish is that when I buy stuffs, I try to choose stuffs are wrapped in paper packages. The most shocking fact is that the number of fishes passed away by swallowing plastic is much bigger than the number of fishes killed by people who are working for fish industries. In certain industries, they even think dolphins are competitors who would eat fishes, so they kill them every single day. Another frustrating fact is that some sea organization which is called by nonprofit are related with fish industries. And they publish some marks like ‘MSC-sustainable seafood’ and ‘Dolphin safe’ which never guarantee the sustainability of seafood and marine ecosystem. These marks are attached by seafood products for encouraging people to eat fish. After watching this documentary, I’m thinking what should I reduce to eat fish? De we need to eat fish that way? I think we should know this content for us for the future. In the end, if the ocean dies, the next is our turn. Recommendation!

Being a sensitive monster on a sensitive day . I woke up with a bad dream in the morning. The content is that a thieve had visited at home and had stolen everything. And I also realized that my credit cards and money of my purse had stolen as well. I tried to report it to the credit card company but couldn’t do that in the dream. After I woke up, I looked at the window with a not good face, it was raining. I had some dry bread and then packed my laptop and a book. And then I headed to a cafe. Recently, I’ve been listening to an online class for getting an UX certificate. I have to take an exam after the class, total 5times, and today is the third day. The cafe is surrounded by big windows so I like it. There was the best spot which I could see outside widely but some people had gotten the seat already. The atmosphere of the cafe seemed to be quiet and had less people so I got a seat. The owner had been cleaning the bottom of the cafe, after she found me at a counter, she came to me and received my order. I ordered a hot americano and a cookie and then she picked a head of the fork with her dirty thumb for giving it to me. I felt bad. So I washed it with a bubble soap in the bathroom secretly. After 5 mins, two people turned up and had a sit of the middle of the cafe and have started to make a big big noise. Especially the man’s laughing sounds are very awful. His voice is very sharp and the tone is very up and down. Even though I’d been wearing earphones, it has bothered my ears. I want to smash the guy’s head. And now I’m writing down my uncomfortable situation for dealing with my anger. I feel much better. Writing is an amazing skill to control my feelings. Ah, the cookie is too sweet enough to get illness. - Could please give some feedback 🥲

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Does my writing sounds natural? Please correct me 🙇🏻‍♀️ - It's been a long time to have one of my favorite soul foods. This food's name is 닭칼국수 Dak-kalguksu. I've had this for almost 20years. The restaurant's name is '다락투' in Hongdae. I trust the chef's honestly for providing clean food. The chicken stock is very deep and clean. It's not that oily. Their side dishes are always very fresh. It seems that they don't advertise themselves much. So I'm gonna sharing the location URL https://g.co/kgs/Mp1rq8 for someone who currently stays in Korea 😋 If you want to avoid crowded times then visit at 4-5pm. There were no people when I visited at that time. Big recommendation as a local resident 🍜👍🏻

Could you please check if this writing is natural? "Cherries have ripened too much and blueberries are wrinkled by having lost all moisture, so I didn't want to eat them 🤮 As a solution, I decided to make them as jelly. It took only 40mins. I had a productive lunch time. 😋 Cherries 700g, Blueberries 200g, Sugar 100g"