you will learn after a while you learn the fragile/insubstantial difference between holding a hand and fettering a soul you learn that love doesn't mean reclining , friendship doesn't mean safety and gifts aren't promises after a while you start to accept your defeats with your head held high and your eyes opened wide , with a woman sublimity not with a child sadness you learn to build all your ways depending on your present day because the land of tomorrow untrustworthy to make plans after a while you learn even sun rays can burn if you exaggerated in approach so , you will cultivate your garden and adorn your soul by yourself instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers you learn that you really can withstand you are really strong , and you enfold your value inside you you learn and learn , with every adieu you will learn