My mother -in-law said "you do this ,or this ,till the baby grow up ."But that's not what I want . I know I have to take care of my family , but I still want to be who I am . I think something you have to do is different from something you want to do . I think if I just know how to cook for my daughter is not enough ,in the long future ,I have to be her sister ,can talk to her ,understand her .So I talk to myself I have to be a good English speaker . I come to join the community two days a week . I learned from them and make friends with them ,all of us from all over the world ,for one reason to be together ,learning speaking English . I hope someday I can talk to a native English speaker , and understand each other . living in the U.S,if you don't know how to talk you can't get a job or just stay at home working for the family ,you have no right to have a dream ,Because you lost the ability of living .Be a woman who can bring home the bacon and work at the kitchen .Be a super mom ,don't give up .
