Does keeping expectation to you're love ones is wrong ? No, I do not agree. Keeping expectation to you're love ones is obvious. It is inveitable which comes due to you're honesty, caring and stand and guide at their bad time. This activity induces positive vibes and develop a strong trust. As a result, we have expectation for the person. Well, i have face something same kind of situation. I have never expected or clue that my beloved will leave me. Moreover, she cheated for other person. After 3 years of bond to a person, who left you alone, blocked you from everywhere all of sudden. It hurts you expectation. Open you mind to thing no body is there for you. Many people suggested, to become good and calm from my past bad experience - Move on, believe as it was your bad dream, do not expect anything or wait for her. But it hard to stop expecting when you love was pure.