Bu soruya cevap vermek o kadar kolay değil. İyi bir karı yada koca olmak için en önemli şey her şey hakkında iki kişi olarak düşünmektir. Çünkü, eğer sadece kadın olarak düşünüyorsan, kesinlikle mutsuz olacaksın! Kadınlar ve erkekler çok farklıdır. Eğer iyi bir karı olmak istersen, biraz bir erkek gibi düşünmen lazım. Mesela, detaylara çok fazla odaklanmamazsın. Ve tersine, eğer iyi bir koca olmak istersen, kadın gibi düşünmen lazım. Biraz daha fazla ince düşünmen lazım ve kibarca davranmak çok önemli.

Чтобы стать хорошим мужем, обязательно иметь желание работать над собой. Бессмысленно пойти к коучу если ты еще не готов вложиться в деле. Давай не обманем друг друга: вопрос "деньги есть?" еще актуальный. Конечно, в двадцать первом веке, женщины самостоятельные и им не нужна помощь какого-нибудь патриарха. С другой стороны, все хотят материальное обеспечение. Поэтому вот твоя первая задача: найти высокооплачиваемую работу. Вторая задача, быть нежным. Никакая женщина хочет жить в прекрасном дворце с замученным мужчиной. Надо забыть о своих собственных проблемах и слушать свою царицу.

Si possono esserlo quando hanno un rispetto reciproco, una sincerità ed un sentimento della responsabilità.

Keeping stable emotion , my husband is a temperamental and crabby person . He can loose his temper on every trivial things. Especially when works off and comes back home. He always yells at my son and me on account of not closing the window or the dirty floor as well as my son watching TV. You know it doesn’t worth him reacting so abnormally like a devil. When he is exhausted after work or has a quarrel with his colleagues at work. He behaves worse. My son and I are all nervous when he is at home. Apparently having a stable emotion can creat a light-hearted environment for others . That’s a key to be a good husband and have a harmonious family

There is only one way to be a good husband/wife;
 Husband, love, protect and provide for your wife.
Wife: Respect, care and be submissive to your husband.

Respecting your partner is a first. He or she is a free person. You need to give your partner the same freedom you own. Don't be jealous is second. You can't doubt your partner, because at that moment love will disappear and hate will appear. You need to trust your partner and believe in her/him. And above all, you need to treat her well. Like if she were a queen.

帮丈夫／妻子多做事，少让他／她担心，要多多支持他／她的事业😀😀😀

一个人要如何成为一位好丈夫/妻子？