The student said she will attend her friend's wedding during the holiday this Pentecost. The husband wants to get married, but she doesn't. She has already spent money to buy a house and wants to save money for the baby. But he said they can't have children without being married. He is busy with work and spends 3 hours a day commuting. She said she doesn't understand: if her friend is unhappy, why did she choose this guy? If they are unhappy now, she wonders why people think having children will make them happy. I said not having children is worse. Many workers are unhappy with their jobs, but they still go to work. Many people are not happy with their lives, but they're still alive. She said she just feels pity for her friend, because she's "beautiful and nice". They were not close at university, but when she started work in Hong Kong, she shared a room with her.