在一些句子中，他们可能看起来像是反义词，比如：对待朋友，你更喜欢锦上添花还是雪中送炭？ 但其实它们不是100%的反义词，因为这两个词有一个共同的地方，就是”给地方好的东西“，只是对方当时的情况是相反的。 ”锦上添花“100%的反义词可能是”落井下石“。

The 锦上添花和“雪中送炭 difference as followed. 1. "“锦上添花”" means that is very good but you help it became much better better than good, "雪中送炭" is to help in the difficult, urgent time, more reflects a kind of true feelings. 2, “锦上添花” refers to someone's situation is already very good, your help or give something, can only make him more perfect, did not play a great role, or have a great impact. 3, 雪中送炭 means that someone is in a bad situation, but you give help or support in time to help him through the difficulties, that is, without your help, he would have collapsed. There is a difference in nature.

“锦上添花”和(hé)“雪中送炭”difference as followed： 1、“锦上添花”是(shì)好上加好(hǎoshàngjiāhǎo)， “雪中送炭”是(shì)在(zài)困难(kùnnan)，急需(jíxū)的(de)时候(shíhou)帮助(bāngzhù)，更加(gèngjiā)体现(tǐxiàn)一(yī)种(zhǒng)真情(zhēnqíng)。 2、锦上添花(jǐnshàngtiānhuā)是(shì)指(zhǐ)别人(biérén)的(de)状况(zhuàngkuàng)本来(běnlái)就(jiù)已经(yǐjīng)很好(hěnhǎo)了(le)，你(nǐ)的(de)帮助(bāngzhù)或者(huòzhě)给予(jǐyǔ)一些(yìxiē)东西(dōngxī)，只能(zhǐnéng)让(ràng)他(tā)更(gèng)完美(wánměi)，并没有(bìngméiyǒu)起(qǐ)到(dào)很(hěn)大(dà)的(de)作(zuò)用(yòng)，或(huò)者(zhě)产(chǎn)生(shēng)很(hěn)大(dà)的(de)影(yǐng)响(xiǎng)。 3、雪中送炭(xuězhōngsòngtàn)却(què)是(shì)指(zhǐ)别人(biérén)的(de)状况(zhuàngkuàng)很(hěn)差(chà)，但是(dànshì)你(nǐ)及时(jíshí)地(dì)给予(jǐyǔ)了(le)帮助(bāngzhù)或者(huòzhě)支(zhī)助(zhù)，帮(bāng)他(tā)度过(dùguò)了(le)难关(nánguān)，也就是说(yějiùshìshuō)如(rú)果(guǒ)没(méi)有(yǒu)了(le)你(nǐ)的(de)帮(bāng)助(zhù)，他(tā)就(jiù)会(huì)倒(dǎo)下(xià)之(zhī)类(lèi)的(de). 本(běn)质(zhì)上(shàng)有(yǒu)区(qū)别(bié)的(de)。

曾经看到过一篇文章说好的爱情都是锦上添花，从不是雪中送炭。 但是锦上添花和雪中送炭有一个共同的反义词是雪上加霜。

算是....😂