I agree with you.  Those who  seem able to love and care for others,  also know how to love themselves.

Hi Oksana! Absolutely! If you don't love yourself & do things that make you suffer, you can't expect others to treat you well.

Here is just a self effacing opinion:
I think we are selfish! 
But when we meet new people we actually have a great and polite behavior, which doesn't mean we are traeting ourselves the same way. What we want indeed is create a picture of us as a good person so we can have a normal social live. Most of the time we pretend be, we are not! 

Ummmm.....may be yes