Valya
Guys I need your opinion here! I was watching one of the enormous amount of TV series and there was a scene where the guy who was actually barbarian gave the girl he liked a flower. And then a thought came to my mind why he gave that flower to the girl. I mean, how did he know that girls like flowers or how did he know that if you like the girl u d better give her bunch of flowers, roses to be more precise, to please her. I thought whether the act of giving flowers is what society tells us to do or it’s just kind of an instincts and it’s coming from the heart itself. In the Tarzan Disney cartoon, Tarzan just saw a picture where a man giving a bunch of flower to the girl standing on one knee and all that stuff and Tarzan just repeated it. That’s what people do he thought it wasn’t coming from his heart he just thought that this is how humans express their feelings., but in the episode that I was watching yesterday this barbarian guy didn’t have even a small hint but he did what he did and it turned out the right thing to do. Then I thought, ok why flowers, why not strawberries, for example, or just tree leaves. The answer is just that easy. Without a doubt the girl was beautiful and the only thing that can compare to her beauty is flowers. Very romantic but it’s true. Even barbarians can differ beauty from non-beauty or from not enough beauty or whatever. So he found a flower that he thought could compare to the beauty of his girl. And he gave it to her. Now we reached the point. I think it’s so good when guys give flowers to the girl, but I so much dislike when guys give flowers only because everyone does. That is sound like a rule. Give the flowers to the girl or you are going to be punched. No guys seriously, my point is if u like a girl and u think she is pretty or beautiful give her the flowers that can compare to her. I don't like roses. I hate them, because every guy I met brought me roses. But why roses I have nothing to do with roses. My hair is red if it was black ok it would be a good colour scheme but it’s not. I mean, if only they told me the reason why they brought me these. Yes, they all had a reason but the reason sucks. I brought u roses because I heard that every girl likes roses or that is what they’re telling us to do to please a girl. Or I if u like a girl bring her roses that’s what I read in boys magazine. They just don’t have imagination or they just couldn’t think. For me if you bring me ox-eye daisies I will more appreciate that because
10 янв. 2015 г., 10:37
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I think it has more to do with how men view the world (we put the most weight on the visual). So we offer what we think is most important to you. In reality women probably feed more off of emotion and would find more gratification from a poem or something that reflects their feelings. This is only what I think I've observed.
30 марта 2015 г.
I think it might be too much to get angry at someone for trying to make the best impression. If they give you roses after you tell them how you dislike them, then you can be irritated. So I guess you can put on your dating profiles, for example, "hates roses"?
10 января 2015 г.
u thought about something else that I could like u paid more attention to that. I would be great if next time guy standing in the flower shop would think a little bit why on earth he is doing this at all and not just grab a bunch of roses only because it’s a safe bet Now I would like to hear guys opinion here. Am I asking too much? Or something written above makes a little sense? and dont throw tomatoes at me. I am not feministic at all and still think that chivalry isnt dead.
10 января 2015 г.
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