what is the difference between condolance and consolation 1.When I suffer a setback, one of my friends said cheer up! --- So, he just gave me his condolances or consolations? 2.People lost their houses in an earthquake. --- So, the president gave his condolances or consolations to those people? 3. Someone's relative passed away. --- So, people sent their condolances or consolations in the furneral? Thank you very much!