I've heard it said, "Don't listen a word that a man says, watch what he does." In courtship, many men boast of their abilities and possessions. This can confuse someone wishing to see the true man. Watch for his ability to keep his promises on little things, as that will tell you how important trustworthiness is to him, and how likely he will keep his word on important things.

well, it really depends on two factors 1) your physical appearance and charisma 2) luck

The same way you find the others. Live life. You meet people. Some guys, some gals. Some you resonate with, some you don't. When you know them, then think about selecting. My suggestion? Do stuff. Focus on living. Many people will pass through your life.

When I used the word " date " in response to the question, the askers were so sensitive, they even asked Italki to remove my answer. " You need to date a few to find out " That is the way, I don't see anything wrong.Why most of the askers so sensitve to the word " date " in my answers.

You need to date a few to find out about their characters unless you live in a region where you have arranged marriages.