Do you like gentlemanliness? Do you like when a man opens the door for you? Or carry your bag?
I personally don't like this sort of things. I like a man who is helpful but it is different from having him to do things for me that I could perfectly do by myself. I feel like most of men do these things because it's well-regarded, and most of women are likely to fall for it, not because they truly mean it.
I once told my male friends we women should also offer our seats to men when on a bus. They challenged me to do it so I accepted. We got on the bus, I took a seat and waited for a man to stand close to my seat. He was my dad's age. I offered my seat (My friends were laughing behind his back) and the man also laughed at my offering. That's how most of men have reacted to my attempt of giving them my seat. Most of them seemed to be tired, old or sick; and even though they refused it.
I also find annoying the stare some women give to men on the bus when they are sitting and there's a woman standing beside them. Like men had to offer their seat to women because a woman is a weak creature. No! We can also handle it. We are also strong.
I'm curious to know your opinion on this matter. :)
