Florian K.
职业教师
Will you TRUST someone who is MYSTERIOUS?
Let's admit it, some mysterious people are attractive. That sense of mystery is what makes them attractive as well. Like you are trying to figure them out. It's like trying to put together a difficult puzzle. However, I do not really TRUST a mysterious person. People like that gives me shivers like a horror movie or something. At first, it is like playing detective and then you will end up like a character in the Tom Cruise movie called "Vanilla Sky". You will end up confused , baffled and you will eventually overwork your neurons.

Am I making any sense?
Maybe not!

<a href="https://www.copyblogger.com/author/robert-greene/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>Robert Greene</em></a>, reading out of the orange book, said,
<em>Humans are machines of interpretation and explanation; they have to know what you are thinking. When you carefully control what you reveal, they cannot pierce your intentions or your meaning.</em>
2020年1月10日 13:55
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I checked the exact meaning of mysterious in cambridge dictonary:) (strange,not known, not understood) Generally I like people who are mysterious if their mistery not based on bad things. We can learn a lot from them and enjoy their companies.
2020年1月10日
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Usually i trust people when time reveals them , because sometimes we find mysterious people , yes but they dont hurt others , or they may have some good principles like keeping promisses , so yeah i would trust but with time !
2020年1月10日
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Some people simply are discreet and reserved. Like me. And this shouldn't be confused with unreliable people.

Remember that generalizations are always so dangerous.

What do you all think about my point of view?
2020年1月10日
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It's not the fault of people if something scares you. They have their own reasons not to interact much with you, with other people or with the world in general.

They may be shy, or socialy awkward, or have there internal life which never bores them, even if they are alone. They may not need randome people to talk about random topics, because they just don't have a need to feel the other people presence all the time. They may not share what they did last weekend or last night, because they may have attended the past life regression class, and if you are their boss with very rational mind, they would never tell you in order not to make problems at work. Some people may not be interested in life at all like they are living, but not are being present entirely in this world. Things going inside them interest them more, than what is going around. Some people never live for full here, because they feel they don't belong this place. They feel like they were forced the be here, and that their real home is in the better world. You can't get much social activity and communication from them, because they don't see the point of it.

I've met people who don't like people, because they reckon people make our planet worse, they litter, use too many natural resources, their amount should be reduced to keep our planet safe. That's why they love animals more than people, or they prefer to be in nature more than socialize with someone.

Whatever reason they have, it is you who is afraid of them, so it's your problem that you need to solve with yourself rather than with them. Sorry, if it's rude. But everything that scares us is a thing to work hard with, but not blame other people, that they are not as we expected.
2020年1月11日
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@Florian,
I like to interact with those who I understand. There are enough puzzles in our life to solve besides mysterious people. If they like being self contained and closed in a weird way so be it. Without me. You asked why it is boring to me to keep in touch with them. Because interaction in my opinion is when people are able to talk with each other discussing different things. What could you talk about with mysterious people? If they want to keep their mystery intact - no problem. I am out. By the way I don't believe in existense of mysterious people. They pose themselves this way while in reality they are pretty regular individuals lacking attention.
I do believe in existense of extraordinary people but they are not mysterious.
2020年1月11日
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