"Had spent" "Having spent", "Have been" "Being"
Hi everyone, would you please help me that is a confusion - "had spent" to be "having spent" and "have been friends" to be "being friends"?

we had spent nearly all our money. so we couldn't afford to stay in a hotel.
- having spent nearly all our money, we couldn't afford to stay in a hotel.

we have been friends for years. it is quite easy to share secrets between us.
- being friends for years, we find it quite easy to share secret.

Thanks!

Question

"Had spent" > "Having spent", "Have been" > "Being"
Hi everyone, would you please help me that is a confusion - "had spent" to be "having spent" and "have been friends" to be "being friends"?

we had spent nearly all our money. so we couldn't afford to stay in a hotel.
-> having spent nearly all our money, we couldn't afford to stay in a hotel.

we have been friends for years. it is quite easy to share secrets between us.
-> being friends for years, we find it quite easy to share secret.

Thanks!

Answer

we had spent nearly all our money. so we couldn't afford to stay in a hotel.
-> having spent nearly all our money, we couldn't afford to stay in a hotel.
these two have the same meaning one can use whatever form one wants
we have been friends for years. it is quite easy to share secrets between us.
-> being friends for years, we find it quite easy to share secret.
same answer as from above
in English  one can use either form to convey(say) the same meaning.

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Your example sentences make it pretty obvious what the difference is!

May I offer a tip? Punctuate your sentences corrects. Start them with a capital letter, and use a comma instead of a full stop to join sentences.