erm... i am a Chinese, Malaysian Chinese. For ur problem, I think it is unrelated to Chinese girl, but more to personality.

有这样一句话： 她说要你走，其实是要你留，如果你听不懂，就别谈恋爱

lol.probably you gave her wrong feelings.she thought you feel the same way to her but you not.so just try to explain to her.......whats your reall feeling..if you actually only want to be friend...then you should give her some time to release.

Well, I guess its not like they never express their feelings. Probably you got way too close to her that she mistook the relationship between you two. So after you leave, she's kinda getting desperate. u know, some girls are quite bipolar... just too much drama... lolz

hmm silly ,i bet she has feelings about u the problem is u dont feel the same way ,do u ? but u might act like u do , and then she realised that u dont ,oh ,am i making this complicated ? sorry ,haaha i can see that shes doing this because she wants to pull herslef out be4 she drowns too deep of the feelings about u !! shes trying to protect herself from being hurt or being hurt too bad , on the other hand , let me tell u , she wants to see how ud act if shes leaving u . u know sometimes we cant realise if we fall into someone till theyve gone . so here is the advice , if u do have a feeling with her , then tell her and bring her back to ur life , if u dont , just write her a msg or text her the truth , never fake how u feel . thats all may u good luck and u r welcome !!!