I would add that "[something has] come up" means that something just happened. It usually is used to mean that you can't do something else because of it:
"Hey! I'm sorry but something has come up and I can't come to your party today."
Or that it didn't become relevant for a conversation:
Q: Why didn't you tell me that Stacy and Mark started dating?
A: We were talking about your job so it didn't come up and I forgot to tell you. Sorry!