It’s a classic scenario: you really like a guy, but he’s giving you mixed messages. He may be married. You make excuses, decide he’s confused, afraid of commitment. But the truth is that "he’s just not that into you. " Basically I agree with the message behind the movie and the book Sonia. Stop kidding yourself, let go and look for someone else who will be available. After all "if a guy really likes you, there's nothing that’s going to get in his way." Too many women make excuses to avoid admitting to themselves that a man just wasn’t that smitten with her. Vice versa, if you are happily married, don't break up your family just because you're lusting after another.

Well, it's not easy to answer this question, especially being a single. The attitude of one-woman men is distinct, otherwise they wouldn't be called so. Actions of other married men (and women) will depend on many factors like their age, children, common property, relationship with the mother-in-law, etc. So there're two ways out: to divorce and start a new life or to ignore this idea and continue enjoying with what has been already acquired. Taking into account my unwillingness to change anything cardinally, i'd prefer the last variant. I haven't watched that (of 2009, not so old) film, but i don't think it'll influence my opinion. Thanks for the offer. (Hope it'll be moved to Discussions)

You call them or us 'modern society'. Do you think that's good or we've just lost the right way to do the things?

That's a very good question. That's why modern society offers divorces.