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Hi everybody, I've just started learning Chinese. Do you have any suggestions regarding differences in student/teacher and/or women/man interaction/communication between China and Europe/US? I want to avoid being unintentionally considered rude or inappropriate. Any tips&tricks are welcomed. #China #ChineseEtiquette #ChineseLeague 大家好, 我刚开始学中文。 您对中国和欧洲/美国在学生/教师和/或女性/男性互动/交流方面的差异有什么建议吗? 我想避免被无意中认为粗鲁或不恰当。 欢迎任何提示和技巧。 #China #ChineseEtiquette #ChineseLeague
2021年7月30日 16:43
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Hi Mike, it's great that you want to be aware of these things. I'd say people are generally more conservative, but in some ways also more modern than you'd have thought. Krystal's points are good to keep in mind, but that may change as you get to know the other person better. Be polite as you would with any other person, and when in doubt, ask. You'll find we are more friendly and open than you think! In some ways, at least :) I hope you have a good experience interacting with different people :)
2021年7月31日
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Hi Mike, it is great to know that you are learning Chinese. In my opinion, I think you don't need to worry about it too much. Though there is a cultural difference and different ways of expression, as long as you are being polite and friendly, you have nothing to worry about. However, try to avoid talking about highly sensitive subjects like politics, religions, and so forth, which might cause arguments. Anyways, happy learning! And if there are any specific circumstances you would like to talk about, I'd be happy to share more tips:)
2021年7月31日
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Hi Mike, nice to meet you here 😃 What a great question! What I can advise based on my 5yr+ experiences in multi-culture environment as as a Chinese female are as below: 1. Be mindful that Chinese people generally do NOT appreciate a direct approach in communication, especially when it's criticism or sth negative. For example, if you intend to correct someone's English pronunciation, you can give that person a little compliment first. Present yourself as a approachable and friendly teacher is very important for Chinese students. 2. We don't directly say NO but we do hesitate. It's critical to pick this signal as we are being taught to NOT reject others. Rejections are often seen as impolite or even rude in Chinese cultures (well, actually in many other Asian cultures as well). 3.This one might be very obvious and global: people can be quite sensitive about their ages, including men. So...if you are surprised by someone's real age, don't act like you do lol...unless this person looks way younger. Most importantly, be sincere and open-minded (yes, there I said it). Understand that every country is different, and each system is different as well. In the end, what matters the most is that we all want be a better self. Good luck, Mike. Hope my advice can somehow help you. 😄
2021年7月30日
Hi Mike! I'm not familiar with American and European culture cause I've never been there or living there. But I think this rule will apply to all culture: Never ask any precise private question when you are not familiar with that person. like salary, age. Another tip: don't be afraid of asking or talking, most of us are kind to any language learner as we know that they are not mean to. The basic rule: be honest and tone of your words or diction of your words also help you a lot to avoid any offense situation. If you have any other specific confusion on some senarios, I would be happy to help you as i am currently learning English and this could be my way of practing
2021年8月17日
Don’t worry,follow your teacher and ask questions when you don’t understand. It doesn’t matter to make some mistakes when you are just a beginner. Enjoy your learning journey :)
2021年7月31日
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