Parenting is always a hot topic that talked about most between parents around my country, especially these parents whose children has been teenagers. It seems like that each child will have two enemies During their adolescence.They are their parents. They tey their best to prove themselves have been adults, but their parents just want to take care of their children like what they did before. So, when a mother brings a glass of water into her daughter's room and ask whether her assignment has been done ot not, but be responded with "get out of my room". The mother feels sad, and the daughter feel not be respected and trusted. This reminds me of my boss who scold us sometimes with due to some little things, but everyone only responds him with silence, because this is the rule to balance everyone's benefit in office. You can imagine that if you respond your boss with some swear words, or your boss scold you everyday without any reason, what can be happen next? But at home, the blance between children and parents is always broken. Most parents think that their children don't have the ablity to plan their future without their advices. They are the king and queen at home and have the supreme power to decide everything. Meanwhile children always feel be offended by their parents on their privacy. They fight against their parents to get the right to decide their own life. Though both children and parents love each other, they are not good at dealing with their realtionship. Some people are very kind and patient to maintain a good relationship with boss and colleagues in offices. We can even call them social butterflies, but they don't know how to respect their children at home!