My Viewpoint on Happy Marriage My Viewpoint on Happy Marriage Nowadays, there is no consensus of opinions among people as to whether marriage is the tomb of love and love is the shackle of freedom. Some people say it is true while others take an opposite stand, firmly believing that marriage is crystallization as well as a witness of love. As far as I'm concerned, the latter opinion holds more weight. Indeed, it is marriage that benefits us a lot. My reasons can be listed as follows. For one thing, after married, they won't feel lonely any more with sharing happiness and sorrow with each other. For another, the researchers acknowledged that the figures show that married people live longer than everyone else and they will be immersed in happiness. Undoubtedly, a harmonious marriage is vital to everyone, just as the saying goes, "He is the happiest, be the king or peasant, who finds beauty in his home.” So can we find the ways to have a lasting and happy marriage? There are several ways to create and maintain such a marriage. Firstly, not only should you overcome being self-centered, but also value your lifestyle, trying to get rid of your dirty habits, if there are any. Secondly, you should be brave to face the possible difficulties and try your best to treat all disasters as incidents, and none of incidents as disasters. Thirdly, you should learn to listen, forgive and appreciate. In short, to succeed in marriage, the couple should be mutual respect, and pursue healthy lifestyles and positive outlooks in your lives.