Saying hello in English isn’t as straightforward as you might think. We don’t use formal and informal versions like in Russian (ты/вы) or French (tu/vous), and yet… we have so many ways to say it!
One of my Russian students once asked why a builder said to her, “You alright, love?” She was worried she looked ill!
I explained that this is just a friendly informal way to say hello in the UK.
Let’s break it down.
Polite & Neutral:
'Hello' – safe in nearly all situations.
'Nice to meet you' – when meeting someone new socially.
'Good morning / afternoon / evening' – formal, used at work or in service settings.
'Excuse me' – to get someone’s attention politely e.g. asking directions.
Greetings at Work or Formal Events:
A handshake is expected when meeting someone new and, in the UK, we use the right hand to shake.
Traditionally, you wait for the more senior person to offer their hand first.
Ladies and younger people don’t always shake hands with each other – a smile and 'hello' is just fine.
Tip: if in doubt, stand up and smile. I always think it is better to be too polite than to seem rude.
Casual and Friendly:
Use these with friends, younger people, or in informal settings:
'Hi' / 'Hiya' - used by everyone. A friendly 'safe' greeting.
'You okay there?' – often used like 'hello', not a real question! (So: Friend - 'Mary, this is my work colleague, Oleg'
Me - 'You alright there, Oleg?'
Oleg - 'Hello, Mary!'
'Now then!' – a northern English greeting (use it the same way as 'You alright there?')
'Wagwan!' - This is used primarily in London by young people. I wouldn't use (as I am too old!) but it's popular, particularly in South London with young people of Jamaican heritage.
Delivery Matters:
Saying “Are you alright?” in a serious voice might worry someone! As long as you make eye contact, and smile, a simple 'hello' will always be well received.
