You always have interesting questions, Oscar.
There are many valid choices for the prepositions. They have slightly different meanings:
"What is your basis for disagreeing FOR/WITH/ABOUT this proposal?"
FOR emphasizes the choice of proposal. Why are you disagreeing about this proposal, as opposed to your reasons for disagreeing with some other proposals? In this use, the word "for" is attached to "this": "for this".
WITH emphasizes disagreement with that particular proposal. In most cases, this is your simplest and best choice.
ABOUT emphasizes the content of the proposal. What about the content of this proposal makes you disagree with it? Why does this proposal "smell" bad to you?