Find a partner or to learn a language.

Dear all,

This one is for all of them, those who are trying to find a native language partner. I mean, every day the discussion section is full of these topics. But let me tell you one thing from my experience of two these two months, you have to keep practicing if you want to be good at certain skills.

I have joined two- three groups, initially every member was excited to learn, but after a week very few were interested in learning. Then after a few more days, the group was just a waste of time. All you can see in that group is - "HELLO", "GOOD MORNING" and "GOOD NIGHT". And these people are the same people, those who were once really excited and serious to learn a language.  

All I want to tell you, it's good to have a fire, it's good to have a zeal to learn but please try to maintain this until you learn it.. until you achieve it. 

So stop wasting your own time and start learning.

PS- Don't mind the tone. 


Apr 11, 2019 6:40 AM
Comments · 3

Placid disposition  - Actually, the gist of the story is to stay motivated unless you don't learn it  ... unless you are not confident .. And how one can do that? by practicing again and again. So when I used "to stop wasting time", I meant to say - stop zeroing in on native partners and start learning. 

Than, yeah this what I am doing these days, recording my self and trying to figure out my problems.    

April 11, 2019
Agree with you <a ng-if="discu.creator_obj.allow_profile" ui-sref="user({})" href="" class="" style="line-height: 1.5; color: rgb(149, 149, 149); outline: 0px; outline-offset: -2px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">Nikher</a> @! i joined 2 groups  all the members had been  so exciting when when we discussed about practicing plan in the future but after few meetings it was so disappointed ! i was almost alone in those groups. now im considering to talk English with myself.  
April 11, 2019
Hi, nikher, you are definitely right. Joining some groups or finding some native partners are not guaranteed that you will achieve. But if don't join or speak in the group or move out. Even you have no chance to know that wastes of your time. But you think that wasted your time, to others that maybe Learn something new, probably it is exotic culture things and unknown phrases. Like I am through or zeal I saw in your post. Language learning is just to use and practice. If you don't use it will lose. But why I said you are right? Because I experienced this too. I had joined English groups and talked with native partners. But soon we were quiet and no more continuing. Because we were not same stages and track. This is a question about how people know each other with distance and no face contacts. Virtual I don't believe everything is true but I don't skeptic it is not true at all.  Just see how you treat it they will treat you back. Back to language partner. Of course it is worse than teachers. If you afford you pay for teacher that keep your motivation but maybe not. Because you less zeal in your mind. Not about teachers. 
April 11, 2019