Richard-Business Eng
Professional Teacher
Is it OK to laugh at our mistakes? What do you think?
Is it OK to make mistakes?
Yes, it’s okay to make mistakes... mistakes can be corrected.
Everyone makes mistakes sometimes.
Mistakes can show us what we are doing wrong.
Then we can find the solution and never make the same mistake again.
It's almost painful when we make a mistake, but recognizing and correcting our mistakes is a great way to improve ourselves. English has an interesting idiom: No pain, no gain!
Do you have a similar idiom in your language?
The only way to make no mistakes is to write or say nothing, but then you will never learn anything.
 
Is it OK to laugh at our mistakes?
The simple answer is YES.
Laughing has so many physical and mental benefits:
- Laughter stimulates your heart, lungs and muscles, and increases the endorphins that are released by your brain
- laughter reduces your stress
- laughter make you feel more relaxed
- laughter improves your immune system, it makes you feel healthier
- laughter even reduces physical and mental pain
- laughter can improve your mood and your attitude
 
When you are in a good mood, you learn better and more easily.
The path to language fluency must include a lot of mistakes.
When the mistakes are corrected, your language skills improve.
 
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Do you agree or disagree that laughing sometimes, at our mistakes, helps us learn better.
Do you have a funny story about any mistake you've made (especially mistakes about learning a language)?

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Here is my story
Many years ago I visited Thailand.
I learned a few Thai language expressions before I went to Thailand.
On the first day in the hotel, I went to the restaurant for breakfast.
A young boy and a young girl (a waiter and a waitress) came to my table.
I spoke a few simple Thai words to them... they smiled and laughed.
I knew they were not laughing at me, they were laughing because my accent/pronunciation was so cute.
The next morning when I went to the restaurant, the young waiter and waitress came quickly to my table and they were so happy to see me.
My Thai pronunciation mistakes were not important.
They were just happy that I respected their language and they were happy because I was brave enough to try to speak their language.
I made mistakes, but I also made some new friends.
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Have you or anyone you know made any interesting or funny mistakes?
Have any of the mistakes you've made led to an embarrassing situation?

Oct 31, 2019 12:28 PM
Comments · 13
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Mistakes in my current language, that has many similar sounding words and letters to a non native. Some of these sounds are like some sounds in English where "e" is pronounced differently either like an "e" or sometimes quite hard by some natives as "a' or somewhere in between. Also the extra letter I that looks like a CAPITAL i causes English learners severe problems for a long time.

Mistakes
I called the parents of someone when being introduced babies instead of mother and father.
I said please fart (break wind) at the table instead of sit at the table. They sound similar to a new learner fart and
sit.
I have made many more but these two were embarrassing.

Yes we learn from our mistakes and if we laugh at them we recover better and never<s> forgo</s>t forget, if we brood on the mistakes and get anxious; the mistakes get worse.
October 31, 2019
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You know, I'd prefer that my teacher doesn't laugh at my mistakes. I often can realize what exacltly I said without any laugh from the person I talk to. I know it may be funny when you say something unexpected and similar to a different word with another meaning but laugh gets me more unconfident than before in such situations. If I said something funny accidentally but it wasn't a joke from my side, I'd prefer a smile (not laugh) and an explanation what I said in a wrong way.
November 1, 2019
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laugh is ok, criticism is ok, but don't judge and say something sarcastic
November 1, 2019
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Som

Congratulations.
I can see that your English is improving with every sentence you write.
I'm glad that you support the notion that mistakes are no more than part of the learning process.
Thank you for contributing to the discussion.


Rina

Thank you for sharing your language learning experience.
Your Italian mistake is very funny, so we should laugh.
Saying that men or women are responsible for all the problems in the world is quite humourous.
I'm glad that the word "problem" is a neutral word in English, so no one is to blame... :)

November 1, 2019
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Надежда

Thank you for your good comments.
I agree.
A teacher should never laugh at a student's mistake.

I hope you know that my discussion was not referring to a teacher-student interaction.
I was talking about laughing at ourselves.
I was talking about me laughing at the silly mistakes I make when I speak another language.
I was also suggesting that we all laugh at our mistakes because some of the mistakes are funny and making mistakes is always part of the learning process.

November 1, 2019
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