about the persons that use this sicological points, that are true exist, alike if someone said you that you need to be happy, ¿happy?, happy is not an actitude, i hate it, when someone said me how i have to think...
good, the best think you can do, is to say the same to the other persons, answer with a new ask, allways, be polite if you speak with a your employer, etc, but, never, get the people, think, than you are a thing and not a person... never, because then you will be similar with others.