可惜，我的中文能力不足，我的翻譯速度很慢！最難的地方在哪？我可以幫你翻譯

-ntury. As adults, we need to give that kind of lessons to our children. I must have maked some mistakes, but at least I tried, lol hope it helps...

上个月张天明姑妈的老同事又给她介绍了一位老先生，六十五岁。两位老人家庭背景差不多，生活习惯也差不多，从方都希望早点儿把关系定下来。姑妈不想让婆媳关系变得更紧张，所以想找个机会把这件事告诉表嫂。姑妈去年认识了一位老职员，就是因为表嫂的反对而分手的。姑妈觉得这次表嫂也许不会反对。这位老先生是退休老师，可以帮表嫂管管玲玲的功课，还可以教玲玲画画。Last month, aunt Zhang tianming’s old colleague introduced an old man who is 65 years old to her again. Those two old persons got the same family background and similar living style, both of them hoped that their relation could be settled down as soon as possible. Aunt doesn’t hope that her relation between mother-in-law and her become worse, so she wanted to take a chance to tell this to her sister-in-law. Aunt met a retired clerk last year , they broke up because the against of her sister-in-law. Aunt thought that this time her sister-in-law won't against them to get together. This old man is a retired teacher, he can help her sister-in-law’s daughter lingling with homework, also can teacher lingling to draw. 让孩子吃点苦 城市里的孩子吃得好，穿得好，玩得好，读书用功，有的还会弹琴，唱歌，画画。做家长的很容易满足，好家现在的孩子什么都有，什么都好。可是也有人说现在的孩子吃不了苦，我认为说得很有道理。那怎么让孩子学会吃苦呢？ 今年寒假，上海一位年轻的爸爸为了教育女儿，给了她两个选择，一是1000元的红包，二是回老家帮助㚲妈做农活。这个小女孩选择了后者，去经受＂吃苦磨练＂。我认为对这位有远见的父亲，不妨也奖他一个红包。 为了使今天的中国孩子在下个世纪不会输给美国人，日本人，德国人。。。做大人的要给我们的孩子上好＂吃苦磨练＂这一课。 Let the kids to get hard lesson The children in the city eat good, dress well, play good, work hard, some even can play piano, sing and draw. As parents, they can be easily fulfilled. Nowadays, kids can get everything they want, and they good at everything. But some people hold the ideas that the kids can’t get through hard lesson, I think is reasonable, so how to give them a hard lesson? This winter vacation, a young father from shanghai gave her daughter two choices in order to give her a lesson, she could choose to have 1000RMB envelop or to go back to hometown to help her aunt do some farm’s work.. The little girl chosed the latter one to experience herself. I think the father is smart , why not we give him a reward as well. In order to make sure Chinese children would not lose to American, Japanese, German in next ce