What does 'head handed' mean?
What does 'head handed' mean?
I read a poem called 'head handed' by Brenda Shanghnessy and it starts like this:
Stop belonging to me so much, face-head.
Leave me to my child and my flowers.

If possible could you tell me what face-head is too?
Thank you. :)

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What does 'head handed' mean?
What does 'head handed' mean?
I read a poem called 'head handed' by Brenda Shanghnessy and it starts like this:
Stop belonging to me so much, face-head.
Leave me to my child and my flowers.

If possible could you tell me what face-head is too? 
Thank you. :)

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I went and read the poem in hopes of being able to answer your question, but it's not written in a way that I could make sense of it. "Head-handed" isn't a word, or an expression, that's used by anyone. Neither is "Face-head." I assume this a metaphor that means something deep and profound to the author, but not to anyone else.

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Having your "head handed" to you means getting totally yelled at (sometimes it is said in a cruder way - having your "ass" handed to you, or getting "chewed out."  I am not sure if that is relevant for the poem, because I am not sure I really get the poem.  I don't know what "face-head" is, but it seems like an insult in the poem. It is not a saying as far as I know.