i don't think someone with rich or goodlooking can attract sb, i think that can not be real love.first ,i think a man shuold be responsible to their life .especially his wife and chirld .second ,i think a man should be brave .He can do something by himself without sorrow .and he can be confident for himself .third, i think a man shoulde care for her family .be repective to their parents. i think he shouldbe rational . lastly . the man who has the same interest and hobby with me .