"Damn" literally refers to a common belief in certain Western traditions that, after death, dead people will be judged, and then either allowed into heaven or condemned to hell. "Damn" is a outdated version of the word "condemn;" notice the similar spelling. Hell is a place of neverending punishment. In one tradition, the punishment consists of experiencing the pain of being burned, with "fire and brimstone," forever. Thus, literally, "damn you" is wishing somebody worse than death. It is a wish, not only that they will die, but that they will go to hell. Like other "bad words," they are often just an angry noise, indicating fury. If I drop a hammer on my foot and yell "Damn!" I don't actually mean that I want the hammer to die and burn in hell. In the United States, when I was a child in the 1950s, "damn" and "hell" were fairly bad words, and in movies characters would usually say "darn" and "heck" instead. In the 1939 movie "Gone with the Wind," when the hero says to the heroine "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn," it was a shocking moment. "I don't give a damn" is an intense, angry way of saying "I don't care." Do a Google search for "seven words television" to find the famous list of "seven dirty words" that you cannot say on US television; you will see that although "hell" and "damn" are still "bad words," they are not on the list of the seven worst words.