ようで means it seems that, it appears that... 急がして悪いけど　I feel bad about rushing you. 急がすようで悪いけど　I feel bad if I seem to be rushing you. I feel bad as if I am rushing you. In other words, this person is trying to say that she is not really, really rushing you, but she still appreciates your taking a quick action.

句子中顿，意思是，如同什么什么一样。