In this context the 2 words, "only" and "just" are interchangeable.
In terms of conversation a child is more likely to use the word "kid" especially when talking to other people of the same age group. Even adults tend towards the use of "kid" over "child" in every day speech but use "child" in formal situations.
I don't know if you want feedback for this part, but in the same spirit of my last point, the word "pupil" is one that does not get used often any more in reference to students. The word "student" would be used instead but, also, the entire wording of the question feels formal which is not the way friends talk to each other. In English speaking countries you're more likely to ask "Does your brother go to school?". It's not directly asking if he is a student but it is implied within the question because students go to school.