how to deal with finacial problem bettwen boyfriend and girlfriend in ur culture? in China,i see most of guys pay for the fees while go out with girls.and some othere coutries,they just pay their own food or movie tickets when they go out?what do you think? which one is better?or which one can make the relationships keep longer?
May 21, 2010 2:58 AM
Answers · 2
From my point of view, it's always better to not pay for everything for a woman. A man degrades himself down to a lower level than the woman by doing that. For a healthy relationship both partners should be on par with each other and that means sometimes the man pays for the woman, sometimes the woman pays for the man and sometimes they pay for themselves. It always depends on the situation.
May 21, 2010
interesting ) I think, in Russia it is more often preferable for a man to pay for the both during a date (especially the 1st date) unless it is not agreed otherwise before. However, among friends of different sex, it is who has money that pays ) Though a man's generousity is always looked upon well.
May 21, 2010
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