Do you agree with this conclusion? Once you say "I love you" to a person, you automatically give that person the right to hurt you. Hi friends , you are all right from one perspective. Thanks for your contribution in revealing your pointsof view. As matter of fact, this conclusion was adopt by G.dondesk on his analyzing the book " thinking at the limit with Freud and Lacan , which was written by Juan-David Nasio" He mentioned that this speech " Once you say "I love you" to a person, you automatically give that person the right to hurt you." also bears indirect meaning that if you say I love you to someone deep form you heart , that means you pledge covenant to your lover to be two in one soul , his destiny is yours the pain of lover belong to you , it can be as allusion for pain of love. It can be considered as pun in meaning structure.
May 30, 2010 3:11 PM
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Hellloooooo !!! No one has the 'right' to hurt you until you -first of all- give him/her the power to do it. You can always choose between recieve or not whatever people throw at you (even love) ... In my case, I always ACCEPT the good things and 'bright sides' ; the rest is not mine... it belongs to the person who brought it . ;-) If you really understand this you won't be afraid to show and express love ever again !!!!!! and believe me... that feels great !
May 31, 2010
No this is a generalisation
May 30, 2010
Hello, You rather disclose yourself enough in front of that person and trust that he/she wouldn't hurt you,because you trust that the person loves you. If he/she hurts you nevertheless, then you can't call it love.
May 30, 2010
honestly... yes and no... yes if the person u say i love u too is not the one for you... then you have given them the right not hurt you....... if the person u say i love you to is the one for you.... then saying i love u should not be a fear of being hurt.... especially if its love from ones heart and soul♥♥♥
May 30, 2010
Sorry I don't agree. " Love gives a lot, but takes nothing". According to its this attribute, love never hurts you if it is real. Its our own greed that hurts.
May 30, 2010
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