"Menace" ㅡ"Suck up"
They were having a quarrel. I don't get the phrasal verb here. Does it mean "flatter me"? But it doesn't make much sense to me.

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1)It is derogatory.  To call someone a "suck up" or to "suck up" to a person is to be nice to that person for personal gain.  
2) To "suck it up" means to quit complaining and finish the task.

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Not sure why you put "menace" there so I won't answer that.

To be a "suck up" is to do something for someone just because you want them to like you.

Example:  Wow, look at how hard Roy is working today.  He sure is a suck up. 
                 (meaning he sure wants the boss to like him) 
                    It's not nice to say - it's said when you are saying someone isn't 
                    giving out of honestly...they are giving because they want something 
                    from the person they are helping.

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