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Megumi@Ibaraki
When you need to describe your personality to strangers....
Is it socially acceptable to describe yourself as an honest/nice/good-natured person in the U.S.? For example, does this self-introduction sound normal?
"I'm a nice person who likes to help others."
Because if you said it to a Japanese person in Japanese, that would sound totally arrogant and self-affected. The person might be really a nice person, but in my country, it's really up to others to decide whether he/she is really nice or not. No one would proclaim themselves that way unless it's meant to make people laugh.
Please explain what's up with the mentality behind it? Do people actually believe what they describe when they meet someone? Thank you all for your comments!
I'm curius about the line bewteen confidence & arrogance. Is it different from country to country? Now I'd like to hear opinions from people in America because I often hear this kind of expression from Americans. Please explain me their cultural mentality. Thanks.
Dec 31, 2010 6:35 AM
Answers · 8
Yes, also in Italy these sentences sound arrogant.
But recently we've unfortunately accustomed to Berlusconi :(
He always starts a speech this sad way.
December 31, 2010
I agree. I think it would be strange if a person described himself as nice and good-natured, especially if he is just meeting someone for the first time. During a job interview it would be appropriate to say things like "I'm hard-working/honest" etc. since those characteristics are necessary for the job, and prospective bosses often ask you to describe your strong points.
People might say "I'd like to think I'm a good-natured person," which softens it somewhat because it still lets the other person decide if that is true or not.
December 31, 2010
well i realy like you point of view, and i think the same personaly. To such questions i answer that i don't judge myself.
Anyway it is good during job interview
December 31, 2010
"I'm a nice person who likes to help others." - it sounds too selfish, bu maybe one who sais it means it?
December 31, 2010
It's acceptable to me if it's said in natural way in some certain circumstancces for explaining something........After all it matters more how you describe it and when to describe it
December 31, 2010
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Megumi@Ibaraki
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